How to Pin a Buttonhole for Grooms and Groomsmen: A Step-by-Step Guide
When it comes to wedding day details, the buttonhole (or boutonnière) is a small but significant accessory that adds a touch of elegance to the groom’s and groomsmen’s attire. As a wedding photographer, capturing these details is essential, but ensuring they are pinned correctly is equally important. Here’s a comprehensive guide on how to pin a buttonhole, perfect for grooms and groomsmen.
This is something I actually see a lot of fellas struggling with on their wedding day, which is why I thought it make for a great blog post! You might even be getting ready for wedding day right now reading this. If you are, scroll down for my step-by-step guide.
Groom outside before wedding ceremony with blue suit, red tie and simple elegant buttonhole
What is a Buttonhole?
A buttonhole, also known as a boutonnière, is a small floral arrangement worn on the lapel of a suit jacket. Traditionally, it consists of a single flower or a small cluster of flowers and greenery.
Step-by-Step Guide to Pinning a Buttonhole
Position the Buttonhole
Place the buttonhole on the left lapel of the suit jacket, just above the heart. The flower should face outward, with the stem pointing down.
Top tip: what I usually tell the guys at this point is drop your chin down and turn it towards the button hole. If any part of the buttonhole is tickling your chin, it needs to be lower. Lower it until no parts of the buttonhole are in contact with your face and no lower, otherwise it will get very annoying throughout the day.
Secure with a Pin
Use a pearl-headed pin for a polished look. Insert the pin from behind the lapel, through the stem of the flower, and back into the lapel. Ensure the pin is hidden and the buttonhole is secure.
Pro tip: If you are wanting the pin to appear completely invisible, try and run the pin vertically through the buttonhole. This can be a bit more tricky but the result is great and your photographer will thank you for saving them some photoshop work on every photo of you. A photographer like myself would be more than happy to help you and the guys with this and then photos can be staged afterwards so you can claim full credit for the handiwork.
Adjust for Comfort
Make sure the buttonhole is not too loose. It should sit comfortably on the lapel without drooping or shifting.
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Using the Wrong Pin: Avoid using safety pins or other types of pins that may not hold the buttonhole securely.
Incorrect Location: Ensure the buttonhole is placed on the left lapel, not the right.
Incorrect Placement: Don’t put the buttonhole through the hole of the lapel- I’ve seen so many guys get blades out to cut the stitches out of this little hole in the lapel and wedge their buttonhole through thinking the job is done. It never looks good!
Overcrowding: Keep the buttonhole simple and elegant. Avoid adding too many flowers or decorations.
Tips for a Perfect Buttonhole
Coordinate with the Bridal Bouquet: Ensure the buttonhole flowers match or complement the bridal bouquet for a cohesive look.
Keep it Fresh: Store the buttonholes in a cool place until they are ready to be worn to maintain their freshness.
Practice Makes Perfect: If you’re not confident in pinning the buttonhole, practice a few times before the big day.
Conclusion
Pinning a buttonhole may seem like a small detail, but it plays a significant role in the overall look of the groom and groomsmen. By following these steps, you can ensure that the buttonholes are pinned perfectly, adding a touch of sophistication to your wedding attire. As a wedding photographer, capturing these details that are presented correctly will add to the beauty and memories of your special day.
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